Friday, May 23, 2008

Caring for all. Caring for everything. Have you tried this?

Caring for all. Caring for everything. Have you tried this?:

1. Providing Lift to fellow traveller on same destination:
i. During our Bachelors our Institution was 18 kilometers from the City. While 95% people had their Bikes. 5% who could not afford didn't. We used to share petrol and travel.
ii. Many times if there were no practical or lectures/ contact hours left some one used to leave early. Even at that time anyone seen walking was called in as a pillion rider.
It not only helped but also saved time and many times there was good exchange of ideas.

2. Planting as many trees as you can:
As last time mentioned in the "Social Networking Article", an elderly person used to collect seeds of mango, guava, jamun, chikkoo, oranges, ...........throughout the year and in the monsoon he travelled and sowed those seeds at proper places in city, to mountains. The result is amazing.
In fact anywhere you find seeds collect them and plant them and water them and see the result. Happiness and joy. That's all.

3. Collect money and provide tricycle to physically challenged:
My father did it and does it very often.

4. Providing jobs to needy:
Many physically challenged even poor people become happy if they get job. Especially those who try to be independent and are honest become obliged to the job provider. They do their job very honestly and I have seen the employers very happy.

5. Reading spiritual scripts with older and elderly people:
We try this. We do this. We get wisdom and guidance from these seniors. Those words are so powerful and full of experience that they stuck inside the brain and make powerful impression and photographic impact on mind. Spiritual scripts tell us the truths of all times and seniors make you to digest and assimilate those words with their powerful experience and thoughts.

6. Taking care of a child at home:
Just do this and see the happy face of mother of that child after one hour. She looks Relieved, and tries to find proper words for thanksgiving.

7. Helping students completing their homework:
You will be hero or heroine for them for rest of their life as everyone require some help in case he/she is overburdened with homework.

8. Providing monetary help at medical emergency:
My father manages and helps many. Once, one of our relative required "Jaipur Foot", he provided it and our relative became so happy that .........a manly figure ..literally cried.
One of my friend, saw a girl child o some tender age. She was laughing and playing suddenly she fell down and with just one dial ambulance came lifted her and took her to hospital. He went to that child's parents and asked what is the problem? "She is suffering from blood cancer and every month she requires some 250 milliliter blood". My friend called a emergency meeting for all the neighbors and friends. "Come what may attend this meeting at 10:30 p.m. in night".
Lot of people came. Blood group was "A-" i. e. "A negative" a rare group. Immediately phone started ringing and many blood banks were called. Within a week a group of 12 young strong people was formed. All having A negative blood group. It helped in yearly blood donations, to survive the child. Still our eyes get wet, when we remember this incidence.

9. Providing help for education:
We had a friend. He did his Polytechnic and started his job. Was very intelligent. A fellow helped him in getting admission to Part time Bachelor of Engineering. His family was very happy as his life changed after that.
Next, we had a maid servant. She had a son, who wanted to study, but, monetary constraints stalled his education. Our neighbors with the help of my mother helped her son study.
Next, we had a peon in our institute. We made a proper request to the management and that boy went on to score more than 95% marks in tenth standard/ grade. He is top medicine practitioner now....
My grandfather provided help to at least 10 students out of them 2 went on to became Principal of the schools they studied.
In India Education, Ethics and Values will always have demand, demand and demand.
There are many cases in this section.

10. Listening to your dear and near ones:
Many times in these hectic days, you find less time to talk with your near and dear ones. Just spent some time with them. Instigate them to talk on personal and crucial matters. Ladies will cry after ten minutes and gents will tell their story of boss or...
After 30 minutes you see their relieved faces and feel the joy of of good listener.

11. Bringing vegetables from the market:
It will relieve the pressure of housewives.

12. Take at least one Insurance policy for near and dear ones.
Just do this and provide a kind of financial security. When a person pays the premium, his wife will feel how much he cares for her.
It has been observed that Investment properly always provide the much needed financial security.

13. Help people suffered in accident:
As you might have seen once life is saved you feel real joy. Remember Police are smarter than you think. They always know who is the real culprit and they will always protect you, as you are saving life of a needy person. Some times Traffic Policeman remains busy with traffic hence one such help from your side can save the life.
Once, when I was 7 years old, it so happened that an elderly person got hit with a vehicle and he fell down and he could not get up. Two pillion rider stopped got down from their bike. Talked to traffic policeman and immediately took/sat that person between driver and pillion rider and took that diseased person to nearest hospital. Life Saved. Thus, timely help, is really a help.

14. Providing simple helps:
Once one elderly grandma tired to read but could not. Being poor she could not buy spectacle/ spectacle. One of my uncle helped her examine her eyes from a Ophthalmologist and bought a thick spectacle. Still after 20 years she uses the same spectacle-frame. She has read many good books a with a resolution of 'reading a page a day'.

15. Helping others to tune the engine of their vehicle:
It helps in reducing pollution, and decreasing fuel consumption. It increases the life of the vehicle and increases the average of the vehicle.

16. Watering the plnats of neighbors when they are on holiday trip:
Just try this, and spend time with the plants and flowers, take care and see how tenderly looking species are been taken care by the nature. How are these species serviving with the concept "servival of the weakest" and not "servival of the fittest".

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Dr. Ashish Manohar Urkude
ashish.urkude@gmail.com
Blog 1:http://ashishurkude.rediffiland.com/
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